Bullying has been around for ages, but today it's more pervasive, anonymous, psychologically scarring — and even deadly. Everyday Health Medical Director Mallika Marshall, MD, explains what all parents need to know about bullying — and how to stop the bullying 'epidemic' from spreading even further.
By Allison Takeda
Jamey Rodemeyer. Tyler Clementi. Phoebe Prince.
Their stories are different in some ways but have the same tragic ending. All three — Rodemeyer, 14, Clementi, 18, and Prince, 15 — suffered physical or emotional torment at the hands of their peers until they felt they had no other option but to take their own lives. And, sadly, they're just three of many examples of bullying's tragic toll.
Bullying is not itself a new phenomenon — the verb first came into use in the 1700s, and the act it describes originated even earlier than that — but it has taken on a new sense of urgency and significance in recent years. This is due in some part to the aforementioned rash of "bullycides" (suicides caused by bullying) but also to what some have called the general "epidemic" of bullying, defined by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as "an attack or an attempt at intimidation that intends to cause fear, distress, or harm."